I didn’t choose this path.
Heartbreak carved it into me.
For most of my life,
I was the girl who
held everything in.
The soft one.
The strong one.
The one who could take
care of everyone else while
quietly falling apart inside.
And then I lived through
the heartbreak that finally
broke me open.
The kind you don’t talk about.
The kind that rearranges your insides.
The kind that forces you
to meet yourself at rock bottom
when everything you loved
…or imagined a future with
…or prayed you were enough for
falls away.
That heartbreak became
the beginning of my healing—
and eventually,
the beginning of this space.
Healing From Bed
wasn’t born from perfection.
It wasn’t built on morning routines
or beach journaling
or any of the pretty versions
of healing we’re taught to admire.
It came from the dark.
From silence.
From the nights where
my chest hurt so much
I couldn’t speak the truth out loud.
This space is for the quiet healers—
the ones who feel deeply,
love deeply, and break deeply…
but are finding their way
back to themselves
piece by piece.
I share what I’ve learned
because these things saved me:
• why heartbreak feels like physical pain
• how the nervous system reacts when you’re grieving someone who’s still alive
• how attachment patterns shape who we love
• how to move through emotional waves
• how to rebuild your identity after loss
• how to find yourself again after giving everything away
My intention isn’t to “fix” anyone.
I’m here to help you understand yourself
the way I learned to understand myself—
gently, slowly, honestly.
To offer language for emotions
you don’t know how to explain yet.
To give you tools that
helped me breathe again.
To hold space for your
story in the same way
I once needed someone
to hold mine.
Because I know what it’s like:
to miss someone so
deeply it makes you nauseous,
to question your worth
because someone didn’t choose you,
to go no-contact and
feel like you’re losing oxygen,
to hide your pain because
you’re tired of explaining it,
to break quietly so no one
worries about you.
No one teaches us how
to heal a heart.
So I made it my mission
to create what I needed.
My approach is simple:
Softness.
Nervous system care.
Understanding your emotional patterns.
Letting yourself feel without drowning.
Releasing love that hurts.
Returning to yourself—at your own pace.
Healing shouldn’t feel
like a performance.
It should feel like gentleness.
And that’s the foundation
of everything I share here.
What I believe:
• Heartbreak doesn’t mean
you’re broken.
• Missing someone
doesn’t make you weak.
• You deserve a love that feels
safe in your body,
not just in your fantasies.
• Healing is not linear,
but it is possible.
• You’re allowed to rebuild your
identity from scratch.
• You can start again,
even from your bed.
If you’re here,
this is your soft place to land.
This is for you if:
• you’re navigating heartbreak
or emotional loss
• you’re healing from
an ending you didn’t want
• you’re stuck in an
attachment cycle
• you miss someone
who isn’t coming back
• you don’t know who
you are without them
• you’re ready for tools
that actually help in the moment
• you want to feel understood
instead of judged
Together, we’ll rebuild:
your mind,
your identity,
your emotional world—
from the inside out.
Welcome to Healing From Bed.
Where your feelings are not too much.
Where your heartbreak has a home.
Where you learn to hold yourself
the way you always wished someone else would.
I’m honored you’re here.
– HFB 🌙

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